Why are so many people who have kids obsessed with child-free people? We’re over here minding our business in peace and quiet with our pets, wine, and savings accounts. Please leave us alone.
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
Your body may not always know how to respond to intimacy or vulnerability so it responds in anxiety or panic. This is bc your subconscious has learned to associate closeness or expressing emotions as dangerous, so your body is having a trauma response.
Jamie Lee Curtis wonders why artists don’t have concerts during the day rather than night:
“Why are there no matinees? I'm not gonna go see Coldplay if they start their show at 9 and there's an opening act. I want to hear Coldplay at 1 PM.”