@BukkyOA Our fathers always know what is best for us, our mothers loves us to accept every version of us available. Both of them are important in a child's life
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That 3rd chorus, i loved from childhood..
This 2nd Half of 2026, you will testify in Jesus Name.
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Sex won’t satisfy you.
Fame won’t satisfy you.
Drugs won’t satisfy you.
Money won’t satisfy you.
Alcohol won’t satisfy you.
Success won’t satisfy you.
Life is empty without God. He is the only one who can satisfy your heart.
Even thugs & touts that have penetrated our political space are sending their kids abroad to school.
But they're giving your parents who couldn't even send you to good schools in Nigeria, 1k & bag of rice to vote for politicians.
Some of you, your parents are your undoing.
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But then, I think every married man should take a clue from it.
When you wife says that you're owing her, do not start shouting or cussing her out.
You may wish to audit what she says you're owing her, but she is not really expecting you to pay all if you cannot do it.
Acknowledge it, and pay what you can pay out of it.
It'll make your wife happy.
There are many things that your wife does without necessarily disturbing you for them.
This is why you should always give your wife money for nothing sometimes.
And if she's a housewife, pay her monthly stipends.
For those of you that are married to good wives, you'd notice that whenever you give her money to spoil herself or purchase something for herself, she may use more of that money to buy things for the kids or the house.
Never leave your wife's account or pocket empty.
Be conscious of it.
You may be too busy to notice what she does, and handles in your absence.
That's why she's your wife.
I don't regret marrying my wife, even if I may grumble because I am human.
But if you honestly assess why she says you're owing her, you'd see that the debt you're paying isn't mostly because she used the money on herself.
But for you and the kids that you both have.
End.
At the age of 23/25, my wife and I were serving (NYSC).
I was not even sure of what would become of me after service.
But it took me 4 more years before I could marry her.
In the Western world, it's very common to see young men getting married at 25.
Why? Because they have a better economy and social benefits for children, etc. Most children go to public schools (primary and secondary), which are free. Health care is also provided in public hospitals for most people.
But here in Africa, and in Nigeria, the reverse is the case.
While we have public primary and secondary schools, most of them are not in good shape.
That is to show you how bad things have become.
Because I went to a public primary and secondary school, and the same applies to my wife.
In Nigeria today, most parents prefer to send their kids to private schools and also use private hospitals.
We don't have the basic social amenities or benefits that most people enjoy in the Western or more developed world.
So, in such a situation, is it advisable for a young man to get married at 24?
Is he mentally and financially prepared for the responsibilities?
Because whether you like it or not, once you're married, you must live up to your responsibilities, regardless of your age.
Which is why, even though I encourage early marriage, I still advise that 35 is not too late for you. You need a strong financial plan and buffer to be able to survive as a married man in a country like Nigeria.
Your fathers may have married at a much younger age, but we had a better country. Private schools were very scarce, and most of us went to public schools.
If our government is failing us, do not fail yourself by embarking on a journey of marriage when you're not prepared.
And if you decide to embark on it, please manage the responsibilities you take on.
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I asked a sex therapist:
“Why do people get married and suddenly stop having sex?
He smiled and said;
Marriages become sexless when:
The man stops leading, and the woman starts resenting.
The woman stops respecting, and the man starts detaching.
Lust turns into routine.
Intimacy becomes a negotiation.
Attraction dies the day comfort and entitlement walk in.
You stop dating each other.
You stop seducing each other.
You stop looking fuckable.
You start looking predictable.
Sex dies when masculine energy gets neutered and feminine energy gets bored.
No one wants to rip each other’s clothes off when they’re stuck in roommate mode, nagging about laundry and scrolling next to each other like zombies.
Marriages become sexless when:
A man trades his purpose for passivity.
A woman weaponizes sex for control.
They both forget the fire they had when they couldn’t keep their hands off each other.
Sexless marriages aren’t about libido. They’re about polarity.
No polarity = no electricity = no intimacy.
You want the spark back?
Stop being soft.
Start leading again.
Make her feel like a woman, not a coworker.
Make him feel like a man, not an ATM.
Because no one wants to fuck their disappointment.
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So I got married last year to the man who sponsored my education. Have no kids yet though. Thanks to him, today I work as a government teacher in a secondary & high school. I actually just got recruited to this school where I teach Geography.
But please, I'm confused. There's this particular guy, actually a male colleague of mine. He has been working here as a Biology teacher for 6 years. Since I arrived & started work, he has been so nice to me, guiding & showing me around, buying me gifts too, and keeping me company so I don't feel alone since I'm new. We got so close after a month. I don't know, but I just really feel so comfortable & safe with him, even more than my husband. I love his company. If I'm to be honest, I feel like I can share & tell him everything.
Even my husband doesn't get me gifts like this guy does. He is such a kind & gentle man, i must comment, he truly knows how to treat a lady but something about his behavior, actually changed recently. Which leaves me confused. He switched from food gifts & started getting me underwear, bras, and perfumes. Even on 'Teachers Day' he bought me same gifts. This has actually been going on for about 2 weeks now. Please people, this keeps me wondering if it's okay that i keep collecting these gifts. Considering the fact that, I'm a married woman.
Truth is, we've been so close, and I don't know how to go about rejecting these gifts since he is actually doing it with pure intentions, with no strings attached, and he's been so nice to me ever since I got here. I plead for your advice & guidance 🙏