Sam Aiwu

Principled, strategist, open-minded, tech enthusiast, pianist, chess player, saxophonist, tutor, Dad, Chelsea FC, front-end web developer.

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@japzyne @El_Moregreen What is SOP Sir?

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@taiwo_junzi

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@rencesthought @Blue_Footy Only you witnessed it. Shit players.

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@tammychuks @RMKaizen @Blue_Footy Follow Maresca to city.

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@godsonhpcomedy @tammychuks @Softyroyal_ @Blue_Footy How many games did Chelsea win in December before he left?

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@CuteSmiles_ Is it not you women that always say 'my body my choice' ? I guess that's her choice....

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@ChuksEmma947401 Interested

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@osita_newton @Benking443 @VisitMex @los40mx @Mexicanos1o What a xenophobic display by the Southy tonight 😜😜😜

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Even if fuel gets to 5k per liter, I can still afford it.

But can I drive my car safely to anywhere in Nigeria?

That's why you should never gloat when very few of the citizens can survive a harsh economy.

If it's bad for you, it's bad for all.

That's why you're an idiot when you support the APC because you're benefiting from them.

You'd be the first victim from a failed government, because you have the money that the poor needs to survive.

No one gains anything when majority of the population live in abject poverty.

End.

[Dele Olawanle @dolawanle]

LEARN NOT TO BE BITTER.

I learned something from my late mother, who was not a bitter woman and was quick to forgive. I saw my mother quickly make up with those who offended her, and it was remarkable.

She told me that I should never be bitter, unforgiving, or brood over disappointment. She said people will reap what they sow, as God is the ultimate judge.

I have used that to deal with my life, disappointments, and betrayal. Several people have let me down in life. My children, seeing the betrayal by some church members years ago, said: “Dad, knowing how well you loved and supported these people, what would you do if you saw them anywhere”? I told them that I would hug them. I said they were the ones who betrayed me, that the guilt was theirs, and that I would always love them. I meant it.

In life, if you are bitter, you won’t be better. Always be the bigger person. When they go low, you go high. God is the ultimate judge. He knows our hearts and intentions.

I found out that mature people don’t get bitter because they know anything can happen tomorrow. Look at the politicians. They don’t fight forever. They will have issues and make up with their opponents. It is their supporters who act foolishly by fighting each other. Politicians can move from one party to another.

I also found that any disappointment is a test of our maturity. Will you seek revenge, do a tit-for-tat, fight back, or walk in love with maturity? If you pass the test, you will go higher in life. It has worked for me a lot.

If you don’t want to limit your growth and advancement, walk in love, and you will gain the world, including those who hated you or betrayed you. I see you rise!

My name is Dele Olawanle. I am a coach. I think, write, and speak to improve lives. Share this post. Follow me for more insights and inspiration. #deleolawanlesnuggets

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[blue @bluewmist]

Avoid the cheap dopamine hit of announcing everything to people. Life is easier when no one knows about you.

[Tai Lopez @tailopez]

The universe will delay your money until you fix your discipline.

[Eric @amerix]

Good morning,

WAKE UP!

No one is coming to rescue you.

• Not the government,

• Not your friends,

• Not luck.

The life you want is hidden behind work, sacrifice, discipline, and consistency.

Today is another opportunity to move one step closer.

Get up and go after it.

[Ms. SUSAN KATAIKE @sussiekats]

📢Ageing isn't the problem — unpreparedness is.

Most people don't suffer because they grew old; they suffer because they ignored what mattered while they were young.

Build your own stability.
Don't anchor your security to your children, your partner, or anyone else. Save consistently, keep learning, and stay active. Financial and personal independence isn't arrogance — it's self-protection.

Stop draining yourself for others. Be generous, but not at the cost of your own life. You have a finite amount of time and energy. Spend them wisely — you can't pour from an empty cup.

Release what no longer serves you. Anger, guilt, betrayal, regret — the longer you hold them, the heavier the load. Some wounds only begin to heal when you stop reopening them. Let go and move forward.

Guard your inner circle fiercely.
The people closest to you quietly shape your future. Nurturing relationships builds you up; toxic ones quietly drain your peace. Protect your environment the same way you protect your health.

Invest in your health before it demands payment.
Move your body, sleep deeply, and eat with purpose. Your body is the only home you will ever truly live in and maintain it before it falls apart.

The bottom line
Old age doesn't create your suffering — it simply reveals what you built or neglected in your earlier years. Your habits, health, finances, and relationships are being shaped right now.
Protect them today, and your future self will thank you.

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@GlobalEllah Interested

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@LeadHerLogic I'm interested

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@BenoHr80463 Interested Sir

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@AitreMao @kenkenlewu Nah..... I think it is more about mentality than financial background. We need to overhaul our mentality about relationships in this part of the world.

[Ebun @kenkenlewu]

During my first year in the UK, I lived in a large shared apartment with six other people. It was one of those international flats where you learn more about life than you ever expected.

There was a Spanish guy, a Latvian, an Indian-British guy, a Canadian, myself, and two Polish flatmates a young man and a young woman. Everyone had their own room, and we mostly minded our business.

A few months after I moved in, the two Polish flatmates started dating.

They were only 19 years old.

What struck me wasn't the romance. It was the way they approached life together.

Neither of them came from wealthy families. They both worked part-time jobs and were trying to survive on modest incomes. Because they were under 21, they earned less than older workers due to age-based minimum wage rates at the time.

Money was tight.

But every challenge they faced, they faced as a team.

Whenever there was an issue with bills, they didn't come separately. They came together.

"We are a bit short this month."

"We are trying to sort things out."

"We are looking for extra shifts."

It was always "we."

Not "he should."
Not "she should."
Not "that's your responsibility."

Just "we."

I remember hearing conversations like:

"We are saving to get our own place."

"We are trying to manage our finances better."

"We are both looking for additional work."

"I'll pick this up on my way home. Can you handle that?"

Simple things. Normal things. But they revealed something deeper.

These two teenagers understood partnership better than many adults twice their age.

There was no constant battle over who should do what. No endless debates about who owed whom. No scorekeeping.

They simply saw themselves as a team trying to build a life together.

That experience taught me something important:

A successful relationship is not built on age. It is built on mindset.

You can meet people in their thirties who are still looking for someone to carry them through life. And you can meet teenagers who already understand sacrifice, cooperation, and shared responsibility.

A few years later, I noticed something similar with another flatmate.

The Spanish guy was 23 and dating an Indian lady. She owned a car; he didn't.

Every morning she would pick him up for work.

They travelled together to India, Spain, and Italy. From what I could see, they planned and funded their trips as a couple. Nobody was trying to prove a point. Nobody was obsessed with keeping score.

If one person had more at a particular moment, they contributed more. If the other person needed support, they got it.

Again, it was the same mentality:

"We."

Not "me."
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