@libriscent Forgiveness is a choice, not a debt. Someone truly happy with their life doesn't waste energy being wicked. If they meant to hurt you, they revealed their nature. Cutting them off isn't bitterness; it’s high-level hygiene. Guard your space.
Saw something that said 'I don't believe in forgiving intentional wickedness' and I couldn't agree more. A lapse in judgment is one thing, but your whole intent was to hurt me, I'm good forever and I don't care who you are.
i don’t like friendships where insults are passed off as jokes. i choose kind, soft connections because there are so many ways to laugh and play without hurting each other, and while teasing may work for others, it doesn’t belong in my relationships
peak female experiences :
1. realizing u can wear whatever you want
2. becoming besties with your sister
3. friendships start turning 10+ years old
4. accepting your body
5. finally understanding your mother
6. de-centering men
7. developing a ferocious sense of self-love
oh you’re “brutally honest” but are you ever honest about the good stuff? do you compliment people’s positive traits and behaviors? or do you only open your mouth or fix your fingers to be “honest” when you’ve got something negative on your mind
You guys actually underestimate what the previous generation went through. You can’t even boycott Starbucks but you think you can fight against slavery
This is how I feel the first time I meet someone’s parents or step into their home, like this is getting deeper and shouldn’t be taken lightly. You’re literally entering someone else’s world!!!