In other words if you recognize the "fighter" in yourself it should automatically help you recognize the "fighter" in the person standing next to you, leading to mutual grace instead of judgment.
Every one of us has a fight and a fighter in them. Do we surrender or throw in the towel? Of course NO!! Are you crazy? Hell no, we don't! We lose again and again, but once the spotlight focuses on us, we rise up again like the phoenix and take our shot. Mostly, it's like that.