A safe man enters your life and loves you the right way. No manipulation. No side chicks. No half-hearted love. No lies. No inconsistency, and no mind games. Just showing up and nurturing the woman you are, while encouraging the woman you're becoming.
Ladies, you can't make him care, can't make him want you, can't make him act right, but what you can do is make sure you don't put yourself in situations where you're not valued, or respected as you deserve. you have that right to not stay where you aren't being loved. Period!