Be kind to your heart. Don't let it become overwhelmed with worry about the future and the things you can't control. Allah will take care of everything.
“And whoever relies upon Allah then He is sufficient for him.” (65:3)
marry a man who's a provider. that doesn't necessarily mean that he has alot of money. It means he knows his responsibilities. he'll make mountains move just so your needs are met. a responsible man is better than a rich man who doesn't value you.
The Taliban have effectively excluded Afghan women from society, confining them to their homes and even preventing men from interacting or speaking with them, under the pretext of protecting Islam. Yet, the same Taliban openly socialize, dine, laugh, and enjoy themselves with Chinese women in public in Kabul .
The question arises: why is there no sign of the same Islam and ideology that condemns Afghan women to silence and isolation in these situations?