One time my ex was crashing out bc I wouldn’t stay in his home while we were arguing and I literally looked at him and said “you ain’t never been with a bitch that had anywhere to go” 😭😭😭 ate him up he was speechless LMAO
@guideforlovers This is not always a clear sign, as many women may simply feel more comfortable and confident expressing their intelligence and ideas around someone they care about. It's important to communicate and understand each other's boundaries and preferences in a relationship.
@Mubarak_mubious I assumed constant approval was essential,
Until I met someone who lived unapologetically.
They thrived without everyone’s validation,
And I learned freedom isn’t earned it’s claimed.
A girl said she ended a friendship because her friend wouldn’t leave her toxic man.
She said, she told her “I love you… but I can’t keep listening to you complain about a man you won’t leave. I’m emotionally exhausted and he not even MY boyfriend.” 😭
• a visa, permit, or official document gets approved.
• you receive an interview invite right after doubting whether you were qualified.
• someone in authority speaks positively about you when decisions are being made.
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"people who are good for us make our whole life bloom. they make us bigger even in spaces that have nothing to do with them."
—one of my wisest friends
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Once you’ve been targeted by a pathological narcissist, something changes permanently. You no longer judge people by charm, credentials, or how well they speak—you recognize the underlying structure. You understand that the mask isn’t harmless; it’s the mechanism. Survivors don’t ask “Would they go that far?” because they’ve already seen there is no internal limit when their false self is threatened.
That’s why being around an identified pathological narcissist feels disturbing at a gut level. People who haven’t experienced it personally may know what narcissism is, but they don’t yet understand the depth of emptiness, cold rage, and moral absence they’re actually looking at.
What a privilege to be tired from work you once begged the universe for. what a privilege to feel overwhelmed by growth you used to dream about. what a privilege to be challenged by a life you created on purpose. What a privilege to outgrow things you used to settle for.
imagined. What makes you different is how you refused to let pain harden you. Others might have let bitterness grow where love once lived, but you didn’t. Even when it hurt, you still chose to rise, to forgive, to try again. You found beauty in breaking and wisdom in wounds. You