if they wanna talk, they will. if they wanna be with you, they will. if they wanna make things work, they will. don't let things be one sided. it's not healthy and it's not fair to you.
i texted her, "how was your day today?" and she sent me a 7 minute voice note telling me everything..
and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
Having people that love you is one thing. But having people who still love you when you're a burden, still love you when things are a mess, still love you when you're in the wrong... those are your people. To truly be loved is to still be loved when it's inconvenient to love you.
“be safe”
“did you eat?”
“text me when you're home”
“be careful”
“do you have enough money?”
“do you want me to accompany you?”
“are you sure you are okay?”
“if you need me im here”.
so little efforts yet so important. it shows how much someone cares about you.