WHAT MEN DON’T UNDERSTAND IS THIS:
Nobody cooks for her.
Nobody cleans for her.
Nobody makes her meals.
Nobody does her laundry.
Nobody checks to see if she’s okay.
And nobody caters to her, period.
A woman is ALWAYS expected to take care of everyone, but she’s human too.
Women get shamed for sex. For enjoying sex. For not enjoying sex. For having too much or too little sex. For having kids. For not having kids. For ending a pregnancy. For having kids too young. For having kids too late.
They want a housewife... they don't HAVE a house, they are worried about gold diggers,..... they ain't GOT no gold. They want a feminine woman,....They are the feminine women THEMSELVES!
“Do you want kids” actually I want to be so deeply and safely inlove with a genuine, handsome, considerate, emotionally intelligent, healed provider of a man that the only feasible next option is to make him a father.
I owe an apology to all the women I thought were bitter while their husbands seemed so easygoing.
Now I know it is very easy to be easygoing when someone else is carrying the entire weight of your life.
Men literally think a woman’s greatest fear is loneliness.
You’re 100% wrong, her greatest fear is getting married, becoming a domestic servant, living a boring and miserable life with a worthless husband, and realizing she wasted her time with you.
Every other love language can be compromised and faked except acts of service at least not for long.
Gifting: a rich person will hack that
Physical touch: Every horny person can use that
Words of affirmation: A liars paradise
Quality time: an unemployed person’s dream.
Acts of service is just pure.
Women get shamed for sex. For liking sex. For not liking sex. For having too much or too little sex. For having kids. For not having kids. For aborting cells that might turn into kids. For having kids too young. For having kids too old. Just stfu man.
Adult friendships require grace. People are busy. People are working. People are parenting. People are burnt out. People are healing. People are fighting health battles. People are prioritizing their true responsibilities. Don’t mistake minimal communication for a lack of care or love. Some of us are just getting by and giving everything we have to our families. Check in before you check out.
I honestly hate that we've normalized the idea that all opinions are valid. I think we should get back to telling ppl that they are ill informed & ignorant.
Men need to understand this: NO woman wants to be like your mother. What many of you actually want is to live like your fathers. Men who sat comfortably while their wives carried everything... the emotional labor, the housework, the childcare, the patience, the endurance, the silence. Men who benefited from women’s exhaustion and called it “a good marriage.” Your mothers didn’t enjoy doing it all. They were conditioned to accept it, cornered by expectations, and trapped by money and society. That wasn’t love. That was survival.