Cheating is abuse and it's weird how yall try to downplay it. It's not just a character flaw, it's a moral one. Cheating can cause psychological damage, long-term trust issues, insecurities, panic attacks, and PTSD, just to name a few. You are psychologically scarring the person who loves you more than anything in the world. I'm so sick of this debate. You don't get to traumatize someone, rewire their brain chemistry, and then say "it's not that bad"
Dudes will NEVER understand how hard it is for a REAL female to walk away from them, even after all the bullshit he's put her thru. She'll still look for the one reason to try and make shit work cause she can't see herself making it work with somebody else. You think she wanna start over with ANOTHER man? MEET another man's FAMILY? Invest MONEY, TIME & EMOTIONS with another man & give her BODY to another man? NOT EVEN!!! She want the man she stood by thru EVERYTHING to get his shit together & make things RIGHT 💯
Nobody has played me more than I’ve played myself. I saw the signs, felt the energy shift and still gave people the benefit of the doubt. I wasn’t confused, I just wanted to believe the best in them more than I trusted myself.
If you cheat, you're a cheater. End of discussion. Stop turning your partner into the reason for your betrayal just because you're allergic to accountability.