Normalize ghosting men who show low interest. Not later. Not after the mixed signals. Not after the excuses. The moment effort becomes optional, make your presence optional too.
After Watching Ahmed and habby’s videos, I understand why he called Ahmed “my boy.”
Ahmed himself said he used to come to Habby’s academy back then to meet his friends. Those same friends were learning from Habby, so from Habby’s perspective, he wasn’t totally wrong.
But I also understand why Ahmed doesn’t agree with it now.
He’s grown. He’s built his own name. In his eyes, he was already doing his thing back then, just networking, and now he’s on a different level. So being called “my boy” doesn’t sit right with him anymore.
To me, this is just ego meeting growth.
They’re both right in their own way. But there’s a point where someone you once guided outgrows that label. They’re not “your boy” anymore, they’re their own man with people looking up to them too.
Honestly, if Habby used a different word, this probably wouldn’t have escalated like this.