No one becomes happy/successful by _just_ following a roadmap or a mentor.
You've got to be an independent thinker. You have to find your path, use perspectives, advice, resources, but eventually learn how they connect for you. You have to carve your own unique path.
If you are always waiting for somebody to give you the cheat sheet, that cheat sheet is going to be copied by thousands of other people, if not millions, and that cheat sheet loses its value very quickly.
There is no shortcut, there is no easy way, there is no get-rich-quick scheme.
Anything worth doing will take time. Will take effort.
Suffering is not optional. You can either decide to suffer less(er) in the beginning, or you can suffer a lot more later. Make your choice.
@RealAnkush Pre-offer refers to past company offer letter ?? If yes then recently i have this experience they ask all document plus last company offer letter after that they send offer letter but before doc they already discuss the ctc
Reminder: The world outside social media (X, Instagram, etc.) is huge and rich. The universe has abundance for you to be a part of.
Don't settle for petty squabbles, ego wars and trying to win somebody's approval here online, that too from internet strangers.
It's not worth it, and we only get one life, limited time, so live your best life with people you love and cherish, instead of worrying about what some stranger on the internet says you should do.
There will always be someone doing less than you, making more money than you.
The day you realize that should not matter to your happiness, you’d be fine.
Chase your own dreams, focus on your growth. If you keep chasing others unhealthily, you’d always be unhappy.
A rare kind of superpower is the ability to take criticism and process it without impacting your feelings.
Whoever is able to do that becomes an unstoppable optimizer.
@DFaithG fuck around and find out has always worked for humanity.
let people be overconfident, ship some shit, then let it not work, then let them learn better. that's perfectly fine.
go through some psychosis is required to reach healthy scepticism
Be very, very, very intentional, mindful, and careful about what you get influenced by subconsciously, especially on social media.
Half of you are upset with your life because you listen to random things from people who have not lived that life or done it before.
For example, you are listening to people who have not worked in corporate about how one should feel content about a life in corporate. Some people have a large following because that's their full-time job/goal. , so they can then milk the numbers to get money for themselves, not for your good. You are just fodder for their monetary gains. They don't have any of your interests in mind. Don't be their donkey.
Ultimately, the audience also deserves the kind of 'influencers' they feed. For example, when people look for lazy shortcuts and quick hacks, that is what these people feed them false hope for, and they become influencers. That is why there are cultures where certain traits are cherished, and those cultures tend to do better than other traits where people tend to stay unhappy.