The amount of prong collars used on dogs is insane. My own take:if you use a prong collar on your dog (canine) and you are kinky, your talk about consent and care is pretty much moot. This is a hill I'm willing to die on.
Being back in the US is wild. Landing at o'hare is even wilder. The wildest? Not going to the hyatt for shibaricon. It is more than 10 years ago everything changed. And now, everything has continued to change.
Also not sure if I miss tying, miss doing something I'm good at, or just feeling incredibly nostalgic at times. I sure miss feeling like I have a strong community around me, but don't miss the realisations that they were never that strong and were very fleeting.
This is surreal, but I'm coming to the US and Chicago for a month in November. So, hi US and Canada peeps I've not seen for a whole pandemic and a half, I would love to catch up.
Oh for any body keeps the score reader here is a short talk on why author is quite trash. I'm one of those who got so much from the book but was also wtf a lot of the unnecessary details of horrific abuse. There are better books and I'll be looking at them shortly.
@tomashemstad And turn to the ones fighting w knowledge and support them. I've learned more about hormones from my transsiblings than any wombcisterfeminist who want to gnaw on their placenta.
🧵Thread: All of the times evidence of Johnny Depp being abusive came out but the media twisted it against Amber Heard and called her an abuser for it. (Content warning for abuse, sexual assault, self harm)
most critiques of "monogamy culture" don't go far enough. monogamy is not the problem. a culture of relationship hierarchy with romantic dominance is the problem.
Oh wow. The shitshow of entitled rope folks who think they have such high horses to sit on is truly never ending. When one unloaded and kept on going the next one just show up.
When I don't renew my @artinstitutechi membership for the first time, it's because AIC desecrated "Untitled" (Portrait of Ross in L.A.) by Felix Gonzalez-Torres. The erasure of Ross's memory and Gonzalez-Torres's intent in the new description is an unconsciable and banal evil.
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At St George's Chapel, the place where Queen Elizabeth will be buried, lies the remains of a young African boy called Prince Alemayehu the son of Emperor Tewodros II of Ethiopia.