1. It creates a paper trail. If your manager later says, "I never asked you to do that," your emails, messages, or updates can prove exactly what was discussed and when.
2. Your manager is not a mind reader. Just because you're working hard doesn't mean they know it. Regular updates help them understand your progress without having to chase you for information.
3. It prevents last-minute surprises. If you're running behind schedule, telling your manager early gives them time to adjust priorities instead of discovering the problem on the deadline.
4. It builds trust. Managers are far more comfortable giving important projects to employees who consistently keep them informed than to those who disappear for days without an update.
5. It protects your reputation. If another team causes delays, communicating the issue early shows you weren't the reason the project stalled.
6. It reduces misunderstandings. A quick message saying, "Just confirming you want me to do X instead of Y," can save hours of unnecessary work and prevent costly mistakes.
BENEFITS OF NOT MASTURBATING
- Clear skin
- Confidence
- More energy
- Better mood
- Self-respect
- More strength
- Better discipline
- Better chances with women
Semen Retention increases the Testosterone level. Testosterone is a Primary Sex Hormone in male which deals with IQ, Mood, and Motivation. High Blood Testosterone level imparts a positive effect on IQ, Mood, and Motivation.
Masculinity frame means taking risks. Women are controlled by low risk behaviorism. The difference between masculine men and feminine men is the difference between risk and safety. This is why women reward masculine men because they respect win big lose big mentality.
"Adhere to the golden ratio. Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give her two displays of affection and stop until she has answered with three more. When she speaks, you reply with fewer words. When she emotes, you emote less. The idea behind the golden ratio is twofold: it establishes your greater value by making her chase you, and it demonstrates that you have the self-restraint to avoid getting swept up in her personal dramas. Refraining from reciprocating everything she does for you in equal measure instills in her the proper attitude of belief in your higher status. In her deepest loins it is what she truly wants."
–Roissy/Heartiste (2008)
6. "If this is a boredom text, I'm busy. If it's an emergency, call 911."
(The Filter)
This sets a hard boundary.
It tells her you are not available for low-effort attention.
1. "Thriving. I honestly forgot you had my number."
(The Ego Check)
This stings because it's true. It tells her that while she was playing games, you weren't waiting-you were forgetting she existed.
CALIBRATE YOUR VIBE BASED ON HER PERSONALITY
Not every girl responds to the same energy. You have to adjust your approach depending on the type of woman you’re dealing with:
If she’s a shy, sweet, or introverted girl:
직장에서 예쁨 받는 꿀팁 📎
1. 인사는 꼭 하자
2. 9시 1분은 9시가 아니다, 지각하지 말자
3. '아무거나요' 라고 하지말고 의사표현을 하자
4. 상사 말이 무조건 정답은 아니다
5. 사전 / 중간 / 최종 이렇게 3번 보고해라
6. 애매한 연초보다는 연말에 입사하는것이 좋다
7. 내일 입을 옷은 미리 전날에 준비해라
8. 내가 하고싶은 일과 나의 장점을 계속 어필해라
9. 폴더 관리를 처음부터 잘하자
10. 일 잘하는 사람들을 따라해라
11. 입 밖으로 꺼내는 순간 비밀이 아니다
12. 책상을 깨끗이 해라
13.전화로 하기 힘든 말은 얼굴 보고 한다
14. 메일함은 절대 쌓아두지 말자
15.중요한 일일수록 메일로 증거를 남겨야 한다
16.이직은 조용히 준비해라
17. 회사에서 돈만 벌지 말고 사람도 얻어라
18.다 사람이 하는 일이다, 조금 틀려도 괜찮다
19.험담하지 말고 뒷담도 거들지 마라
20.말 옮기는 사람은 피해라
Don't text a girl unless/until you're free that very same night AND you're ready to ask her out AND fuck her that night.
Otherwise it's just pointless small talk that can only turn a DTF girl non-DTF.
It never works the other way around.
I always save my openers for early afternoon, and I ask them out same-day.
Anything further into the future is just begging for a flake.
Women act spontaneously, they don't adhere to premade plans.
That's just not female nature!
Got old leads that never responded, faded, disappeared?
Ping them.
Anything will do.
-Just hit a Water Buffalo
-Is this thing on
-final notice
- To-Do list
Apples
Wine
Bread
Milk
Pick up Dry Cleaning
Literally ANYTHING will do
Handy tip for any time a girl throws you a curve ball:
Just imagine you are currently dating 20 other girls.
If you were dating 20 other girls, and a girl you had a date with texted you an hour before the date saying she needed to reschedule, would you:
• Call her out on it angrily for wasting your time?
• Ask her then and there when she wants to reschedule for?
• Try to cajole her into not flaking and instead coming out?
No, you would not.
You’d text her, “Cool, no worries,” and hit up another girl to come out.
Then you probably wouldn’t message that flake girl first again for at least a week or two, because she’s marked herself as less reliable to meet up with.
Unless she texted you first offering to reschedule.
But if she did, you’d suggest a date that was even more on your terms, even more convenient to you.
After all, she’s at least somewhat unreliable, so she needs to be coming more to you, dating on terms more favorable to you.
But then if you didn’t hear from her in a few weeks, you’d probably have forgotten about whatever she did and she was just another random number from a girl in your phone so you’d probably drop her a line again with a short cool message & see if she wanted to meet up.
Then if she didn’t want to you’d shrug and forget about that too because you’re dating 20 other girls and can’t even realistically keep track of them all.
Women are programmed by evolution to desire men that a lot of other women desire.
They instinctively sniff out behavior that says, “This man is desired by lots of women.”
When you BEHAVE AS IF you’re a guy dating 20 women, you very quickly become a guy dating, well, if not 20 women (because who has the time?), at least a good number of women, or at least the woman you want to date, because she/they can sniff out the fact that you are BEHAVING as if you were a desirable man.
Which, ultimately, makes you a desirable man.
Cool how that works, right?
The man who can admire a great ass, enjoy it fully, and still walk away with his frame intact, that’s the man who wins.
Stay focused.
Stay disciplined.
Stay dangerous.
Ass is everywhere.
Your standards and your mission should be rarer.
Girls aren’t really into the whole straight-laced, self-righteous, goodie two-shoes act.
Girls like guys who break the rules.
Rules like:
• “Don’t talk to strangers.”
• “Don’t flirt with a woman you just met.”
• “Never ask a woman her age.”
• “Don’t put your feet up on a chair.”
• “Don’t pull her chair next to yours.”
• “Don’t sit at tables marked ‘Reserved’.”
• “Don’t ask waiters for items not on the menu.”
• “Don’t sing or dance on the sidewalk.”
• “Don’t sneak into places that are off limits.”
• “Never share food/drinks with a girl you just met.”
• “Don’t pull a woman in for a kiss unannounced.”
• “Don’t take girls home on the first date.”
Every time you break a rule, her heart rate rises.
Raise her heart rate enough and she’s all over you.
This is why girls like bad boys.
It’s not because they dislike ‘goodness’.
It’s just because ‘goodness’ — i.e., ‘following the rules’ — doesn’t raise their heart rates.
Breaking the rules does.
Next time you want a girl excited around you, try breaking a few rules.
It lends you instant ‘bad boy’ aura (without requiring you to be a ‘bad’ boy!).
The more consistently you’re having sex, the easier it becomes to attract and sleep with even more women.
Girls can smell it on you.
Make sure they smell success.