Money is being mentioned bc it's the main factor of all this. This entire conversation is disingenuous asl bc if money is such a non-issue like how y'all are acting, why y'all don't be taking niggas on dates fr.
So BOOM! we link up take a shot & hit some drugs, then hit the Aquarium! After 2 hours of pretending we fish we get a nice bowl of Ramen, head back & take a nap.. 7pm comes RUN IT BACK! We at the Hookah spot that randomly turns into a strip club. Juicy J pops up outta no where
Why would men have a 'dream date'? They are focused on the person they are going on a date with, not the peripheral activity that acts as an excuse to know them. They are interested in YOU. The date is just dressing. A setting.
I think what gets me is, instead of sitting down, talking to the lady and looking in the mirror… they always blame women. Not themselves, not their patterns of delusion etc.
Men’s default is miserable. They walk around miserable until something or someone makes them feel human. But it never lasts cause what they need is therapy.
@dontasktolink Lmfaoo nggas be talking like they just be sitting there watching women eat and feeling like they’re owed something. Truly a dangerous bunch..
I love having these conversations, bc it proves my point that most men don’t want to spend $$ or court women. “Fun” to them, is being laid up, screwing, you cooking for them, and playing house.
Or y’all can admit that you’re boring/lack interests lol. A man who’s a foodie will love restaurant dates, a sports fan loves sporting events, music lovers go to concerts or jazz bars, artsy types have museums, competitive folks love a good arcade or bowling date 🤷🏾♀️
@Sasha_sofierce Fun is whatever I make it. I don't care much about taking women on dates and spending but we're not going to act like she gives af about whether i genuinely enjoyed the outing.
She got the date SHE wanted. I'm happy that she's happy. Dates are not for men.