One of the most effective ways to keep people from questioning an unjust system is to convince them that their ability to survive it makes them morally superior to those who can't.
@beachesins Ditambah Tuhan memberlakukan banyak ketentuannya sampai seseorang diperintahkan u/mengeluarkan zakat 2,5% tsb. Ga semua orang wajib bayar zakat 2,5% tsb kalau memang ekonominya belum memenuhi syarat wajib berzakat
Sementara negara ga pandang bulu. Semua orang wajib bayar pajak
bro can these hackers do something useful instead of screwing over working class people, why are you hacking fucking grocery store fridges you stupid fucks
there's a fundamental error in this reasoning. you're 37, you're lonely, and you've concluded that marrying someone earlier would have been the better decision.
but you're comparing your actual circumstances to an imaginary marriage in which everything worked out. you have no idea what the alternative would have looked like.
you could just as easily be 40, divorced, financially devastated, and wishing you'd never gotten married in the first place.
marriage does not solve the problem of loneliness. it's an enormous commitment with its own costs and risks.
your dissatisfaction with the result of your choice is not proof that the other choice would have been better.
makanya gw selalu encourage cewe cewe buat jadi orang yang BERDAYA. why? manusia itu dinamis, people change, cinta pasangan bisa berubah, and we CANNOT control that. satu satunya yang bisa kita kendalikan itu bagaimana kita bisa take care of ourselves ketika hal itu terjadi ☺️