I made 2 mistakes in my early 20s that I deeply regret. First: making people who’ve hurt me believe that we’re cool because honestly, we are not. I forgave you to free myself, but the North remembers. Second: wasting time being sad about how people have treated me. Never again.
Life is actually really beautiful when you live for you and connect with things you genuinely connect with regardless of the noise around you. your life should be considered as personal as possible to you.
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I just want to be a better woman, upgrade my lifestyle, how I handle people/situations, just have complete self control + surround myself with as little negativity as possible.
“if they wanted to they would”
leaves no room for nuance or other things people may be going through. it no longer aligns with my value system. are we meeting people where they’re at or meeting them with unrealistic expectations?
the true test of healing is when you are in relationships with others, engaging with others or put into similar situations. that’s when everything comes up again