so many grown ass adults have no idea how to properly apologize.
if you fuck up, intentional or not, and someone gets physically or emotionally hurt bc of your actions, you’re supposed apologize by taking accountability for what you specifically did, & change your behavior.
having a conversation with someone that only responds to part of what you’re saying and blatantly ignores other parts instead of directly telling you why they have an issue with what you’re saying
Fun fact:
If you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated, or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes for friendships too
even though my mom has always been an abusive and neglectful parent, there was always that tiny part of me that hoped eventually i would have a mother. i think now that my grandma's been gone, that piece of me has been louder. i have no one to remember my grandma with.
i can’t talk about it because if i talk about it that means it matters. if it matters that means it’s real. and if it’s real that means it’s going to hurt.
Being bad as fuck requires a degree of comfort with being fumbled. When you develop the ability to keep it pushing you realize the line wraps around the block