The reason most women want you, as their partner, to be financially buoyant enough to meet (if not all) then most of her needs, is to increase her likelihood of being faithful to you, so she doesn’t have to “meet other men” to help her solve the things you are unable to.
This sounds utterly nonsensical to you as a man because through your own interpretive lens, you view her as your “romantic partner.”
But from the female POV, looking for a man is much like a man looking for a job.
If your present job does not have a competitive enough package to sort (if not all then most of) your bills, what do you do?
You cultivate “side hustles”, anything to bring in extra cash to supplement what your job already gives you.
(Imagine then, if your boss, upon discovering that you have side hustles, berates you for not giving your job your full commitment? Wouldn’t you think him unreasonable and selfish?)
More importantly, you would remain in the job market, in hunt for a better job that will better cater to your needs.
If you took exactly this lens and applied it to how most women view romance in 3rd world countries, their behavior all of a sudden becomes more rational.
Short form summary:
To survive,
Men look for jobs.
Women look for men.
Business ooo, gift ooo
You won’t ever see me in that setting, I don’t know who told men they must over do just to date or fuck a woman who only gives pussy.
My dick is enough reward for her pussy. If she disagrees I find another woman, if all disagree I use my hand.
Marriages survived because men had the heart to endure women.
It lasted for generations because of MEN. Because of our emotional intelligence and our compassion for our wives.
Not because women were good partners. Because men learned to overlook a lot of stupid shit women do just to let peace reign.
Let's be real, women are NOT easy to live with.
They are not romantic. Their whole idea of romance is RECEIVING. What he bought for me, where he took me, what he did for me. Never what they give.
They are not funny. They are overly sensitive, they hate accountability, they hate saying sorry, they hate initiating sex with their own husbands, and they are controlling as hell. Stubborn and rebellious.
And that domestic violence you hear about in marriages? Most of it is STARTED by the wife. Pushing, slapping, throwing things, talking reckless, provoking until the man reacts. Then she wants to play victim.
Look at any relationship that doesn't have a man in it,it doesn't work.
Lesbians? Highest divorce rate. Highest abuse rate. Because there is no man there to tolerate their violence and their emotions. Two women together can't handle each other.
Female friendships? Even worse. Pure gossip, backbiting, jealousy, cutting each other off over the most childish things.
They will have 10 female friends by 2022. By 2026, only 2 are left. She has fought with ALL of them. Every single one is now an enemy.
But men are the problem.
@Mendonotmarry I don't know who keep giving people of masturbation and self pleasure stops you from making money. Like are you dumb?
If we were in a functional economy and you worked 9-5, you mean to tell me because you touch your private part they won't pay you your salary?!
As Nigerian men don mean me for this app and vowed to go through illegal means to look for me when I'm in Nigeria and kill me because of non virgins they married, na to use that medium seek asylum for UK tell them say my life is at risk in Nigeria. And I get evidence to back my claim.
Nigerian men don finally create pathway for me. I can't thank you all enough.
The game might be brutal but it's still fair.
@guzu_p This is what I was saying that people claiming men are "logical" is just a facade a lot of men are more emotional than anything. They can kill you if they see you with their woman, Instead of them knowing that women have been fighting to do whatever they like and want for years
@VERITY_HQ Then fools are of the masses bro, you think its all men that have emotional regulation? Men are worse when it comes to handling their own emotions. Check it, most of them will fight and kill. Lmao men aren't logical at all. We say we are but it's only few that can control emotion
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