Breakups are ok. Starting over is ok. Moving on is ok. Saying no is ok. Being alone is ok. What is not ok is staying somewhere where u are not happy, valued, or unappreciated, that's not ok.
My 5 yr old niece tonight: So you live in that house alone?
Me: Ya I do Emery, just me and Guapo
Her: But why? What about Brad?
Me: Ya, we’ve been over this I broke up with him
Her: So you chose to live alone there?
Me: Yes...
Her: That’s sad, want me to come over?
Me: ...
I just need to say, my biggest pet peeve is when I know you have your phone and you can’t text me back or answer my calls. At least say “sorry can’t talk rn”