“I could never be convinced to join a cult” and “I can spot a manipulator a mile away” and “I could never be abused” are all variations of the same wrong sentiment. Your false belief that you are above manipulation and abuse stems from victim-blaming culture.
people who describe themselves as AFAB, say “women and femmes”, or “femme-presenting” are all the same genre of people to me (bioessentialist & annoying)