when u realize that a relationship isn't gonna work out u need to end it immediately instead of trying to make it work for an insane amount of time so it ends up being a traumatizing dumpster fire that causes even more damage than the premature breakup woulda caused
I just saw this “You’re not lazy, you only have a certain amount of energy and right now you are using it all to survive.” I don’t know who needs to hear that right now, but I know someone does
You’re not lazy. You’re tired. You’ve been living in survivor mode for so long. Your mind is exhausted! You’re still processing trauma. Be kind to yourself, please.