@BaguetteDerp @genshinmenrhot @LaurenzSide Literally this. You get paid for the work and hours you do, if she was just working that little to the point she was risking poverty she could have asked for more work from Lauren, if there was any or looked for a second, or different, job. Always more to a story
@MalcolmSpark@Zorpheous@Mowthesecond@ask_aubry I understand being thankful as it meant you are here and your family as well. However, as a lesson to be passed down through generations, it is important to teach our children to respect no as an answer and to understand the emotions this answer brings about.
@MalcolmSpark@Zorpheous@Mowthesecond@ask_aubry Yes there are shades of grey in life. But here it isnt. As blunt as it is. If someone says no to an advance involving life, self, and body, that means no. Would you continue to advance sexually if someone says no? Why do it for a relationship when there is no reciprocation?
@WinderLeaks @Zorpheous@Mowthesecond@ask_aubry 100%, think of Leonard in Big Bang Theory and Ted Mosby in How I Met Your Mother, also Ross in friends. The nice guy who thinks the girl should be his because he's a nice guy ๐
@Zorpheous@Mowthesecond@ask_aubry 100% and let's not forget how this type of thing can be portrayed in films and TV as well, from all genders. Despite saying no, the tendency is in media to still pursue despite a lack of interest. Teaching the younger generation now to A) say no but also B) accept it is good
@ask_aubry This is neglect. Poor baby ๐ข. They need to follow their instincts and take the baby and go. Allowing this to continue once its known could result in both of them losing the child. Then figure out the deeper why with the partner to get them some mental help too ๐
@nelaknight@tcdragonfly @JehanneIDubrow Because one is worded more sensitively and gives a clear reason why. The other is just bluntly checking. Also, the first gives scope for people to say if they are trying or early days. The second is just an assumption it's okay to go ahead/not go ahead when it may not be.
@megalindd@tcdragonfly @JehanneIDubrow Yeah, exactly. When I was on the pill, I didn't have periods at all. I've only ever been asked it worded as "Is there a possibility" and then, example, at the dentist, as I am trying for a baby now, she asked consent to do an x-ray.
@tcdragonfly @JehanneIDubrow Generally if pregnancy affected treatment the question is "Is there a possibility" For example, I am trying at the moment so my answer is always yes unless I've done a recent test or I am literally on my period. Don't see why they asked this at all.
@shelbygraces I don't know...I think I chew, but mainly as I am a food mixer? So I tend to eat it alongside something else that needs chewing ๐ค You've me want to cook plain rice now just to see lol ๐
@DudespostingWs Literally gives me first job vibes. Before phones had too many games and apps, our signal was rubbish/ non-existent because it was a countryside barn. We would all play solitaire or pinball and try to beat our top scores ๐คฃ
@ladyxesphio Firstly. Well done booking it in. In my experience, the nurses have always been lovely, and they ask questions about how active sexually you are, etc, to gain an understanding. If not, mention it to them so they are aware ๐
@ask_aubry I wouldn't say he's intionally an AH, given that information, he seems to still be healing and struggling with emotional inteligence right now. End of the day she's communicating when he's being a bit of an A, he's aware enough to q it, just needs to listen, process & change (2)
@ask_aubry He literally says in the post he had a stroke and he doesnt know if he is or isnt being an AH. Strokes change your personality as it affects your brain. It takes time and rest to heal and the support and understanding of your SO is important. From the sounds of it, she is- (1)
@tiredmommy1010@SuzieCueMusic@ask_aubry Exactly, I would and have done the same. Ngl, if I was taking a bus, a pair of slip-on shoes or flip flops would be in my bag ๐คฃ Kudos to the women in the OP for standing so long without kicking those things off tbh! I just feel both parties could have tried to compromised more.
@RetaSwift @tiredmommy1010@ask_aubry The end of the day we all can't run on empty. Both parties were communicating a need. A straight up no from either side when the other is in pain/tired without considering compromise just doesn't sit right.
@RetaSwift @tiredmommy1010@ask_aubry Wow wouldn't want to be your other half with how caring that response was๐คจ. If my husband was tired, I would offer the seat or share/split times. The amount of times he straight away offers the seat to me without batting an eye, the least I can do is consider his needs too.