Instagram and TikTok and all the rest spend all day showing you finished jobs.
The one who transformed and lost a hundred pounds to get a six-pack.
The one who got out of debt and built a business worth millions.
The one who met the love of their life after years of being alone.
They’re showing you the whole house while you are staring at an empty plot of land with one brick in your hand wondering how you’ll ever get there.
That’s the problem with social media. Most of it isn’t about the work. It’s about the result.
Whether it’s meant to be bragging or meant to be inspirational, it ends the same way for you.
It makes you feel like you’re too far away to even start. Fitness, finances, work, love. All of it.
It’s time to stop comparing and start laying your own bricks.
I want you to develop a bricklayer’s mindset.
Every day, lay one brick.
One workout. One meal where you have protein and fiber. One bill paid. One job application submitted. One chapter of a book read.
Each decision you make is a brick you can build on.
When you stop comparing and start laying bricks, no matter what goal you are building towards, you will feel a sense of accomplishment.
Or, at the very least, you will be so worn out at the end of the day that you stop worrying about the finished job and start focusing on the job itself.
You just keep working. One brick at a time.
The only way you won’t build something is if you walk away when the job isn’t finished, and we know most people do exactly that.
So here is the second half of it, and this is the part I don’t want you to skip.
Do the work every day. Then once a week, count your bricks.
Pick a night. Sunday works. Take five minutes and write down what you actually did. Four workouts. Twelve meals with protein and fiber. One bill paid. Sixty pages read. Not how you felt about it. Not whether it was enough. Not what you meant to do and didn’t.
Just what you did.
Because the voice in your head is a liar. It knows only one way to measure you: against the finished house.
It will never volunteer that you laid eighteen bricks this week. You have to tell yourself, and you have to see it written down in your own handwriting, or that voice wins by default.
A wall being built doesn’t have the flash of a TikTok post. It gets built by the guy who showed up on a Tuesday when nobody was watching and laid forty bricks and went home.
That was Franco and me. That can be you.
You can change your life.
One brick at a time.
Now tell me: what is the one brick you’re laying today?
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@Schwarzenegger@netflix Arnold,Thank you! You are absolutely right I believe that everyone should have a friend like Franco! In those short clips you guys had blast together, I remember seeing a picture when he was picking up a car. Not to mention he had you as a friend as well ARNOLD!
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