with every single person you meet, there is a specific reason that you met them. they will either love you, hate you, lead you, grow you, influence you, hurt you etc... it’s alll for a purpose. every single person.
Pray for your spouse. Even if you haven’t met them yet. God can use those prayers to work in their life, even if they aren’t in your life right now. Meeting the one you’ve been praying for will be sweet, but the sweetest thing is getting to pray for them before you even meet.