I finally understand that when you love someone, when you really love them, to recover from losing them you have to become a totally different person. You were molded to match them, and in their wake you have to disassemble yourself and try to find a new shape entirely. And so the mere idea of loss is an existential threat. I never understood this before.
Nobody talks about the personality shift in your 30s where you no longer want to be impressive, you just want to be rested, regulated, and completely unavailable to anything that drains you
I will never understand why men chase women. The energy you get from women who ACTUALLY like you is something you’ll never get from a woman you have to convince. Go where you’re WANTED, sir.
You'll regret it if you get married, you'll regret it if you don't get married. You'll regret it if you have kids and you'll regret it if you don't. Kierkegaard said this 200 years ago as follows - whatever you choose, you'll regret it, because the problem isn't in your choices, it's in romanticizing your life. A person always finds an untravelled path alluring and mysterious. That's why the issue isn't making the right choice. It's choosing and deciding which regret you'll live with. In life, we must choose our regret.
Lemme burst your brain
The only reason a woman won't cheat on you is cause she has so much respect for her body
It has nothing to do with being loyal to a man
What you do in private always shows in public. Reading shows in conversations. Your workouts show in your physique. Your diet shows in your energy. Your discipline shows in your confidence. Your focus shows in your results. You are what you cultivate when no one is watching.