Idk how I got so lucky but my husband does so much for me and for his kids. Ok I have the so called woman’s touch but I don’t feel alone in carrying our household responsibilities at all. He was never made to do anything at his childhood home but he did watch his dad do the dishes and general ironing. Mum was doing the rest but I guess it was enough to teach that a man can contribute. He most definitely surpassed his dad in all of that as his dad wasn’t as involved but I guess they just raised him as a conscientious man who can see when he is needed. He doesn’t dismiss the needs that are there. I don’t know, do other men have no empathy? It’s like lots of couples only share intimacy and everything else is a pot luck. I don’t understand how a husband can happily dump all of it on his wife and be ok with her struggling.
Totally understandable if he is at work long hours, comes home exhausted but I’m sure the care would still show in him trying to help a little and just seeing her carrying a heavy load herself too.
Idk what a marriage is meant to be but going through life supporting each other.
@Kluseczki111111@bialawiewiorka Serio to jest niesamowite jak dołożyliśmy sobie spa i groomerow dla zwierzaków do listy usług niezbędnych do życia 🤦🏻♀️
@Piegziu To dla mnie jakieś ocd czy rytuały rodem z Dextera czy American Psycho. Te całe lookmaxxing itp to jest teraz społecznie przyswojone i akceptowane jako porządane cechy osobowości. Wartości ery postczlowieka 👎🏻
@MMustafamufasa@Janusz_Ch_ Nikt nic z tym nie może zrobić w całej Europie. Jedyna różnica u nas jest taka, że Polacy nie mają kompleksu rasisty i aż tak nie boimy się nazwać rzeczy po imieniu ale czy nam to pomoże :/… Przemyt ludzi na wielką skalę, każdego dnia. Zupełnie bezprecedensowe czasy.
God, we are literally talking about the guy having a living wage not some insane wealth 🙄 If she pulls just a living wage herself and marries a poorer guy and has kids with him and they end up struggling for basics while she cannot work what happens then? Shit happens but if the guy has a track record of a low earning potential then it is a bit worrying. If you want family and have half a brain you need to have some sense and standards.
And the height thing. I’m 5’10 and have found shorter men attractive in the past but generally I just don’t feel comfortable towering over a guy. Would overlook it with the right person but I think overall people should have right to have some features they find themselves attracted to. My husband is taller and I like it but that’s just a small part of why I found him attractive.
The rest of the world should put sanctions on countries like this because it sure affects our ecosystem too. They should be made to pay extra to use our technology, trade with us etc for as long as they take the piss about ecology. Our paper straws mean nothing if they keep trashing the planet like this.
@JeanHatchet 14 here, 70 with G Pelicot. If a woman drugged her husband, offered him to others to assault, would she find 70 women prepared to travel the length of the country to abuse him? I doubt she would. This is why women need ss spaces. Many men can't be trusted; you can't tell which.