Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that, never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you too have abscesses that need tending
Hasan al-Basri رحمه اللّه said:
"When a person has acquired knowledge, its effect would soon become apparent in his gaze, his fear and reverence of Allah, his speech, his actions, his prayer, maintaining ties of kinship, and his detachment from the worldly life."
[Sunan-Darimi]
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله :
"There is nothing more beneficial for the heart than treating people kindly and loving good for them."
[مدارج السالكين، ٢/٥١١]