I hate to be the “let’s jump into a call” person because I don’t like it either but some people are genuinely so bad at reading and comprehension that I’d rather spend 5 mins verbally talking something out than emailing/messaging back and forth all day when I have shit to do.
It literally is. The main function of gender essentialism re: men being abusive under patriarchy is to excuse and justify it. "he couldn't help himself, he needs sex and he saw a naked women. it's her fault" "well boys will be boys they shouldn't be punished"
thinking about when michael went in for the kiss during the final cut of gmab but during the behind the scenes awsten went in for the kiss first. maybe i’ll draw mawsten today.
"Why doesn't anyone with time blindness ever show up to work early or leave late" we do, but both of these things are seen as a positive, so if you come in an hour before your shift starts or stay an hour over no one is going to question it.
a lot of rpfers cant tell the difference between actual gay shit and straight guys pretending to do gay shit for fun. ween were actually doing gay shit tho
no plus sizes available AND the merch is genuinely disintegrating in the wash once again… irl merch what happened to those wash tests you said you were going to start doing before selling merch on tour… ?
there’s some people out there who think they’re being feminists by shaming men for their bodies, age etc. because it happens disproportionately to women (it does!!!) to balance the scale when the focus should actually be on abolishing existing beauty standards for women