Calling someone selfish is just trying to guilt trap them because they know they’re not helping them or care enough for them. They would rather them to continue living in pain while they disregard them all because “they don’t want to feel the pain”, which makes them all way more selfish in that sense.
It’s only kind of selfish to the person only if they have kids or someone they’re taking care of or someone who’s actually getting help but still decided to go for it without any care for the one caring for them.
@Shmitshmex@catul_lafortune@strwberryvape So who’s selfish then? You want the person to live in pain while you get to be happy because “you just give the pain to others”. Some bs that is