i stayed longer than i should’ve because part of me thought patience would turn effort into love. it doesn’t. it just teaches people what you’re willing to tolerate.
The sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. Not just love you, but understand you, know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures, it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most.
Girl, protect your peace without guilt. The right man will never ask you to lower your standards to make him comfortable. Normalize choosing respect over attention, effort over excuses, and consistency over chemistry.