Not feeling excited all the time doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship is losing its value. Most of the time, it just means you’ve grown comfortable with each other to the point where you’re so used to their presence and efforts because of that sense of familiarity
In a relationship, you shouldn’t focus only on the sparks. Of course, it might feel less intense because you’ve gotten so used to the excitement and having your partner around. It’s normal, and it can actually be a sign that you’re in a healthy + stable relationship with them
🪵 Temen-temen, gimana kalian ngebedain perlakuan pasangan yang berubah antara getting stable in a relationship or simply just.. yah.. udah lost spark.. soalnya aku rasa pacarku emang masih sayang tapi excitementnya udah nggak kayak awal awal hubungan huhu
Dare I say, if you’re only focusing on the sparks, then you might only be in love with them because of the excitement and ‘novelty’ they bring you during talking stage, rather than genuinely loving the person themselves