Your script for the first 3 years of lifting.
Build muscle and lose fat around a full-time job, 3 days a week.
What works, what's a myth, what to skip.
5 years in the gym. It felt like no progress.
Same weights every week, and I never missed a session.
What changed? A notes app.
Now I have a number to beat every session.
The 3-step starting weight test:
1. Pick a weight you can lift for 10-12 reps
2. Losing a rep or two by your last set is normal
3. Hit 12 reps on every set? Go heavier next session
Common fitness advice, translated:
-Train hard:
Leave 1 or 2 reps in reserve
-Eat more protein:
Eat protein at every meal to hit 1.6 g/kg
-Be consistent:
Hit your 3 days, no matter which days
When you're starting out, every session hits hard.
You'll be sore for days. Add a full workday on top and it's miserable.
But if you rest a day or two between sessions, you'll still be training in month six.
I used to tell myself I'd remember last session's weights and reps. I couldn't remember what I ate for lunch the day before.
Every week was the same weights, same reps, same exercises. Same training every week.
Why would anything change?
The 3-step gym return:
1. Schedule your first session, without guilt.
2. Ease back in with 2 sets per exercise.
3. Plan 3 training days around this week's commitments.
Of course your programme didn't work. It ignored your:
-5pm meeting that always overruns by 2 hours
-Dinner still to cook
-Deadline brought forward 4 days
Common fitness advice, translated:
β Train hard
β Leave 1 or 2 reps in reserve
β Eat more protein
β Eat protein at every meal to hit 1.6 g/kg
β Be consistent
β Hit your 3 days, no matter which days
Lessons from 10 years of lifting:
Track your lifts and food
Plan your workouts or they won't happen
Add a rep or weight every week
Deload every 6-8 weeks
One miss doesn't matter
Show up for your gym buddies
This is not a summer project
Lifting keeps you sane