imo ini bukan cm soal sifat kepribadian, tp soal independensi. cewek yg terbiasa mandiri scr emosional dan finansial biasanya punya ketegasan buat bilang "engga". sementara klo ga punya safety net, sifat agreeable jd mekanisme pertahanan hidup karena ngerasa ga punya pilihan lain
That's not anxious, he is being communicative but you aren't. May he get better gf unless you change yourself. Sorry if it sounds rude because he indeed deserves better.