I thought this straight guy was secretly into me because he was always finding excuses to talk to me, complimenting my outfits, and asking if I had a girlfriend.
One day, I decided to shoot my shot.
He laughed in my face and told me he was straight. Worse, he told his friends what happened, and they started making jokes whenever I walked past.
I stopped speaking to him completely.
Three months later, I opened Grindr and saw a familiar face.
It was him.
His profile said he was discreet, looking for his first experience with a guy, and didn't want anyone finding out.
I screenshotted it, but I didn't expose him.
Instead, I messaged him: “Aren't you the straight guy who told your friends about me?”
He went offline immediately.
The next morning, he texted me from his regular number, begging me not to tell anyone.
I replied, “Relax. I'm not your friends. I know what it's like to have people laugh at you.”
He apologized for the first time.
But here's the part I'm still conflicted about: a week later, he asked me to meet him privately.
And I actually considered saying yes.
Would you have given him a chance, or was I setting myself up to be humiliated twice?
Misogynistic - BLOCKED
“I support child’s marriage” - BLOCKED
over religious - BLOCKED
I hate men- BLOCKED
I hate women - BLOCKED
I don’t EP - BLOCKED
I love my wife but I can still love you- BLOCKED