@Starrtoon theres like thousands of studies and statements now that supports this though? 1 example is the endocrine society's statement on transgender health. why wouldn't it be good to affirm your gender identity/sexual orientation other than 'Jesus said so'? do yall have minds of ur own?
@Starrtoon both parties benefit when either one corrects the other. if it becomes a constant burden on one more than the other where it takes heavy mental toll, the relationship is unhealthy.
just to be clear can you define head of household
@Starrtoon In my religious family and countless other religious families I’ve seen, when the role of “man is the head of the household” is enforced, theres typically a lot of abuse happening, and not the kind you typically imagine. These gender roles don’t uphold well majority of the time
@Starrtoon I literally explained how he’s wrong to say the husband is the head of the wife, because there are many many many instances where it’s the wife that’s constantly in a leadership position of the family
@Starrtoon when the wife constantly has to correct their husband because he’s not making good decisions for the both of them and their kids, wouldn’t the wife be the head of the household?
@Starrtoon How about he just doesn’t include that line ✌🏼 there are many relationships in which the wife has better leadership skills than the husband so saying the husband should be the head is wrong, both are capable of being in this role
@Starrtoon yeah so they arent just born evil, they were socialised to be that way. a lot of the bible's verses are SO EASILY twisted, frankly because it literally just reads like its promoting gender inequality. like the whole husband being the head of the wife thing. thats not equality
@Starrtoon you really think this system is all puppies and rainbows Huh. You’re not considering the husband’s feelings in this, he shouldnt be pressured to be the main provider/protector. Yeah it’s pretty cool if they are, but what if a man isn’t able to do that?