YEAH SEX IS COOL BUT HAVE YOU EVER HAD SOMEBODY GIVE YOU A BUNCH OF LITTLE KISSES ALL OVER YOUR FACE UNTIL YOU'RE GIGGLING AND BLUSHING BECAUSE THAT IS PEAK
some people use y’all as a placeholder until they’re in a better situation and you’ve helped them as much as possible then you become disposable immediately I can’t even make up the amount of times I’ve seen this happen
Get comfortable disappointing people. Other peoples inability to self regulate their nervous system or to contain their emotions in response to your current boundaries, is not your responsibility. You can do your best to move with kindness but ultimately a no is a no.
If you are like me someone who genuinely is happy to support and help others without expecting anything in return, you will learn tough lessons from people who strategically pursue and exploit others for personal gain. Let these people be completely turned off by your boundaries