Shahida Arabi, MA

#1 Amazon Bestselling Author, Graduate of Columbia and Harvard. Researcher. Featured on @Salon, @PsychToday, @HuffPost, @Bustle, & @PsychCentral. NYC. #warrior

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!! 🥰🌲 Christmas light shows on the Empire State Building and the big Christmas trees in Manhattan sparkling ✨

#merrychristmas #merrychristmas🎄 #nycapartments #empirestatebuilding #shahidaarabi #christmas2023 #christmas #happyholidays

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Once in a blue moon. 🌕 The full moon last night outside my windows. So beautiful! 😻 🌕 #fullmoon #bluemoon #nycapartments #shahidaarabi #blessings 🧿 @EmpireStateBldg

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Full Moon in April and some of the beautiful Springtime colors from March on the @empirestatebldg 💗🤍🩵🧿🙏 Happy blessed April! #happyapril #nycapartments #shahidaarabi #manhattan #fullmoon

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

My Audie Award Book Finalist Medal! 🏅 💗🥰🙏🤍 #audies #breakingtraumabonds #shahidaarabi 🧿

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

My book Breaking Trauma Bonds with Narcissists and Psychopaths being announced as an Audie Award finalist in Business / Personal Development. 🥰💗 #audies #shahidaarabi #narcissisticabuse #breakingtraumabonds #traumabonds @TantorAudio

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Wishing you a Happy Valentine’s Day from New York! 😍 Vday flowers and Empire State Building @empirestatebldg lights from tonight. Have an amazing day. 💗😘🧿

#valentinesday #valentinesflowers #nycapartments #shahidaarabi #manhattan

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

V-Day flowers from today. 😍 Wishing you a beautiful Valentine’s Day from New York! Have a wonderful one. 💗😘

#valentinesday #valentinesflowers #nycapartments #shahidaarabi #manhattan

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Throwback! Around the time of my first viral article on the manipulation tactics of narcissists. 🥰 #nyc #columbiagrad #shahidaarabi #manhattan

POV: me, the babyfaced menace who convinced you to break up with your toxic ex the year this picture was taken. 💗🤭🧿

[Tantor Audio @TantorAudio]

The finalists for the #2026Audies are here! Congratulations to the authors and narrators!
@audiobooks @selfcarehaven @theperrytrain

https://t.co/xxUUAnv9o0

[RBmedia @RBmediaCo]

Congratulations to our authors and narrators for their well-deserved #Audies2026 Award nominations! 🎧👏

@recordedbooks @TantorAudio @Dreamscapeaudio @HighBridgeAudio @devneyperry1 @Writer_DG @selfcarehaven @theperrytrain @AndrewBourelle @pjochlan @jmseabrook

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

The most beautiful gorgeous snowy weather in Manhattan turning it into a frozen tundra. Call me Elsa because I’ve been loving these January winter views. ❄️ 🥰 #snow #snowinnewyork #manhattan #nycapartments #shahidaarabi

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

In my Britney Spears era. 🥰🩵💗 Obsessed with my new subtle champagne ashy blondish balayage. 🤍 Happy New Year indeed!

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

POV: I AM ABOUT TO START ACTING UP BECAUSE I HAVE BLONDE IN MY HAIR AGAIN 🩵😘😌

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Happy New Year’s Eve from Manhattan with confetti sparkling lights! 🎊🥰😘 Wishing you a blessed 2026. Sharing a midnight kiss with the @empirestatebldg 😉 ✨ 💖

#happynewyear2026 #nycapartments #ShahidaArabi #manhattan

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Merry Christmas from New York! Sharing the sparkling Christmas lights in photo form. ✨ Wishing you a lovely holiday season and Happy New Year! 😘 #MerryChristmas #Christmas #Christmas2025 #nycapartments #shahidaarabi #happyholidays

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Merry blessed Christmas! 🎄🥰🙏🤍 Evening holiday light shows from the @empirestatebldg, holiday jazz shows, and the Christmas tree decorated with the star and ornaments. Wishing you and yours a wonderful holiday. #MerryChristmas #MerryChristmas2025 #nycapartments #shahidaarabi #christmas #christmasinnewyork

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Wishing you a Merry Christmas morning! 🤍 Yes that's Santa climbing the @empirestatebldg 🥰🤭🎄 #MerryChristmas #nycapartments #christmasinnewyork #shahidaarabi #Santaclaus

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Visiting the Rockerfeller Center tree, Bryant Park tree, doing some holiday shopping in Manhattan, and enjoying the Empire State Building holiday lights at home with my Grand Duchess tree. 🥰💗🤍 What beautiful holiday sights on 5th Ave! Grateful for this magical experience every year in New York. #rockerfellercenter #rockerfellertree🎄 #christmastree #bryantpark #christmas #merrychristmas #nycapartments #shahidaarabi #HappyHolidays2025

[Shahida Arabi, MA @selfcarehaven]

Lovely to see the beautiful Thanksgiving transition yellow to orange and red lights on the @empirestatebldg tonight! #happyholidays #thanksgiving #nycapartments #shahidaarabi #manhattan

[Empire State Building @EmpireStateBldg]

Caught in 4K

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