Financial Domination is a hot fun kink where people (typically) experience sexual pleasure from sending money & gifts to beautiful Dominant women. It falls under the larger umbrella of Femdom kinks & fetishes.
Findom is not bargaining with or faking sends to a Domme. It is not being forced or coerced into sending money. It is not tributing for a session. It is handing over money for the thrill of the power exchange. For the acknowledgement of superiority. For deepening your submission to women and for making reparations for the patriarchy.
It can be a small ritual, a daily prayer: a coffee send. It can be sporadic four digit drains. It can be reimbursements or covering bills or buying shoes or sending a percentage of your paycheck, or all of the above - because it feels good, it feels right. What should you expect in return? Satisfaction from serving in the way that is most useful in this world - with your money. Joy, in knowing you made your Domme smile. Pleasure, because itโs hot to know that you are responsible for arousing an incredibly sexy woman who is more than likely beyond your reach.
If youโre not sending for the joy of it, then you are not a Finsub. Thatโs okay, you have choices. If you are confident in your skills as a submissive, there are lifestyle Dommes whom you form a personal relationship of some capacity with and serve for free or in exchange for services rendered.
If you cannot find a lifestyle Domme online or locally, there are also paid Femdom dynamics available to you.
I, and many other fantastically capable Dommes, are open to paid Femdom dynamics.
Findom is My favorite and though I do enjoy many other kinks - I will only engage with what I want to, when I want to, for a rate Iโm comfortable with. What I will not do is cater to your whims for pocket change. I do not need you, nor do I want to debase Myself for your money. That is not how I express Dominance, that is not how I receive submission.
So, dear submissive: if you want to be in My world, in any capacity, youโll compensate Me fairly. If you want to receive My full attention and the glory of My brain and My years of experience, you will be generous with your time, your money, your body. If you want to be Mine, be someone I am proud to call Mine.
As insane as this is, what's even crazier to me is if Sam Levinson actually did any research about OF, he'd know this content violates the TOS and would never have been allowed on the platform. OF is very strict about the content and words it allows. Anything referencing age play is automatically flagged and banned. He really wrote this in the script for no fucking reason. It's so gross.
this is your reminder that no matter how much money a sub offers you, if what theyโre asking makes you uncomfortable or crosses your boundaries, donโt do it. youโre not obligated to do anything, and saying no doesnโt make you a bad domme. youโre the one in control here, NEVER trade your comfort for money