an old finsub found my account tonight & immediately got back to sending. it doesn't matter how long they've been gone, i'll always have them under my thumb 🖤💵
A sub posted this in a findom subreddit…
And I find it egregious. This is a list of personal pet peeves the sub has within the findom community. And IF A domme does any one of these that immediately makes her a ‘faildomme’. 🤦♀️
First of all, I really don’t think faildommes exist. I think that there are inexperienced dommes who are finding their education, involvement, and personal styles as they develop as a domme. I also think that there are quick buckers that come into findom with zero intention on domming, just trying to find ‘quick money’ - which of course we know isn’t the case.
If a baby domme sees this. There is legit good advice in here. Knowing SSC, RACK, and PRICK is highly valuable. Not poaching - don’t do that, TRUST. Being a girl’s girl in findom is waaaaaay better.
But, a lot of this stuff is also BS. You can be bratty and be a great domme. You can expect tribute and be a great domme. You can use the word timewaster and be a great domme. You can get silent sends and be a great domme. None of those things make you a faildomme.
You can learn and become more experienced as you grow within your dominance. You can try out some of these things and say - yes it’s for me, no it’s not for me.
Faildommes don’t exist. You are not a failure because you want to or don’t want to engage in someone’s preferences or their pet peeves.
Just keep doing you. Be discerning on opinionated ‘educating’ posts like this. Trust your gut. And you’re gonna be great.
YES FUCK IT MY FETISH AND KINK IS I LOVE GETTING FREE MONEY FROM RANDOM ANONYMOUS SIMP SUB ONLINE AND I LOVE SEEING THEIR CRYING FACE BECAUSE OF ME I LOVE SEEING THEM IN PAIN BECAUSE OF THE TASKS I GAVE THEM AND YOU ALL CAN JUDGE ME IF YOU WANT BUT I DO NOT CARE I'VE NEVER EVER BEEN HAPPIER
men will beg to see your ass pics and then complain when you charge for them.
i feel no remorse for capitalizing off of their lust. you shouldn't either, babe.
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