I think our elders didn’t do a good job at modeling how friendship changes from adolescence/young adulthood to 30s and beyond. A lot of us think friendships are supposed to look & feel like they did when we were in high-school & college. & thats just not realistic.
If i care about you, I'll drop anything and everything i got going on if you need me, & because of that, i had to cut ppl off because i dont want to change so I can only be my authentic self with ppl who see me and hear me for who i TRULY am. Not everyone needs to know me deeply