Accusing women of “sleeping their way to the top” is admitting that most men abuse their power for s*xual favors. They don’t wanna talk about that part though it doesn’t suit their patriarchal narrative.
I just went to get an IUD consultation at a gynecologist and she goes, we can do it here, but just so you know, we don't numb. We won't numb your cervix here. And I go, why? And she goes, because the doctor at this clinic doesn't allow it. And I said who is that doctor? She pointed towards a male gynaecologist & said “dear even if I request it, he won't allow it”. And then i asked that male gynaecologist why he won't allow it, he told me because apparently, according to him, that's actually not even where the pain's coming from. So it doesn't even make sense to numb the cervix. i said its painful and he replied “its a part of being a woman”
And it’s not like a feeling of fear or sadness it’s just this very real awareness that for all your efforts you could still end up being with someone and miss the mark
That’s why it’s so important to remain present and be especially grateful when things are good
I won’t say no one talks about this cause I’ve seen people do… but it’s definitely a reality check to experience this:
The feeling that even with the healing & putting yourself first there is still a chance that you could be the one to fuck it up with someone else in the future
It’s wild how the wrong company will make you feel like you’re too much or something is wrong with you… but as soon as you remove them you start to see just how phenomenal life can be and how people truly see you
We need her to drop this YESTERDAY 😩🙌🏾
@TEYANATAYLOR did her own rendition of @SadeOfficial's classic “Cherish The Day” and it’s sounding phenomenal ❤️🔥
🎥: cartunezzzz