This just tells you exactly where you stand as a friend.
You can’t tell me you have the energy to text other people, post a status, and wait for everyone to figure out what’s wrong—but somehow you can’t text or call the people you call your friends.
Y’all can call it “wanting VIP treatment” all you want. I’m not asking for VIP treatment. I’m asking for basic friendship.
If I’m going through something, I’m calling my people. I’m not posting a cryptic status and a picture and hoping they decode it.
So if I see your status before I hear from you, I’ll simply reply: “Get well soon.” 😂
I feel like in relationships, romantic or platonic, there’s a difference between asking someone to do something and having to teach someone how to care about you.
If you have to constantly ask for the smallest gestures, remind them to consider you, or sit them down and explain basic thoughtfulness, eventually it stops feeling genuine. They are doing it because you brought it up, not because that’s naturally who they are.
You shouldn’t have to manufacture consideration. Some things should come from the person because they genuinely care about you.
“Life of a software developer does not look like this”
Well it just looked like it, who are you and why do you think every employer and employee conforms to your standards? 😭😭😭
Nigerians, take notes from Tyla. She simply walked away from a place she clearly wasn’t wanted. No arrogance, no victim card, no running to useless organisations, no empty threats. Just left. That’s how it’s done learn to remove yourself from spaces where you don’t belong.