a father's 'sacrifice' is described as providing money and being decent. a mother's 'sacrifice' is her body, her career, her identity, her free time, her health and her last name. the expectations were never equal.
most men mistakenly think that a woman's greatest fear is loneliness. You're 100% wrong. her greatest fear is getting married, having children, becoming a domestic servant, living a boring and miserable life with a worthless husband, and realizing She wasted her time with you. She wants a life filled with purpose, growth, and genuine happiness on her own terms. The real fear is losing herself in a life that was never truly hers to begin with.
takde siapa ckp salah untuk puji lelaki buat the bare minimum, but do people praise mothers for doing the same? The problem is when men get praised for doing the bare minimum while women are just expected to be good at it
Stop comparing yourself to others. If the Almighty wants you to have what others have, He will give it to you, if not now, perhaps at some stage later on. Be happy with His Decree. Learn to accept His plan. If you’re grateful, He will surely grant you more.
Saya sangat suka dengan cara Nabi ﷺ ajar kita untuk menjadi tenang dengan ketidakpastian.
Nabi ﷺ ajar kita supaya kita kawal apa yang kita mampu, apa yang tidak mampu kawal kita serah kepada Allah.
قَالَ رَجُلٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَعْقِلُهَا وَأَتَوَكَّلُ أَوْ