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I can verify “daddy issues” come in a variety of definitions. Many women are attracted to older men due to maturity, calmness, decisiveness and realness. They are not attracted to men their age, in a world that’s toxic, immature and how people use each other. They are women who are intelligent, have moral fibers and have strong boundaries. Who have old school values. Who have great fathers and came from traditional family values. We have an issue labeling everything, but: “happiness”
and where people find it.
You have haters in everything we do. Dissecting and labeling anyone that doesn’t fit narratives, when 90% of the population is living their lives in the real world, being happy in harmony, while the other 10% are online craving attentions from recirculating post, grooming or manipulating others and hate.
It’s exhausting!

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Many are groomed to be this way by society and social media. I agree some is from experience, but many believe the entitlement sits in their lap due to them holding the key, they do not have the experience yet. I firmly believe at some point anyone with these characteristics will get humbled by life experience eventually.

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@MickMilee And that’s why men cheat. She don’t want to know. Toxic

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@Rapunzel_hnn Respect doesn’t have anything to do with independence. It has to do with boundaries and expectations. I demand respect, but I also give it. We need more independent women though.

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We built the entire world,
we will just take the malls, shopping centers, all the materialistic things that we built for women, be creative with these existing structures to do man stuff in.
I Promise you we would stop building stuff, and just chill out.

Because 70% of construction outside of homes, is to cater to women’s needs and desires.

I think we would be okay.

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Men do not forgive this, unlike women are groomed even by their mother that a man will cheat on her and she’s going to have to forgive him for his family sake. A man doesn’t see it this way. We are keepers and protectors, gate keepers of our families. To a good man this is not forgivable. You will never be the same, and chances are if he ever finds out. He will leave you, 10-20-30 years doesn’t matter. A man who’s faithful, that’s a covenant to him. It’s the biggest thing that holds you together in a world that’s toxic and destructive.

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@sentwts Ironically it’s the women making the porn that they watch as well. They get numb to it, think it’s normal, that all women are like this. Feeding all the toxicity they can to each other.
Ban porn and onlyfans!

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@rosethaaartist I totally agree, because unfortunately most women accept bad behavior.I never understood why women choose men with red flags, Chase toxic lifestyles and men who have no desires but getting laid. They only call these guys out when the guy breaks it off.

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@pallnandi We call it reciprocal love

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@AdaAkokwa1 Telling anyone not to step up and raise their standards and character is a failure. All you have to do is read post and comments, and listen to people today. They are marginal at best with any good qualities. Most are toxic.

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Humans call this normal. But you don’t have to do it. You are free to live whatever lifestyle that makes you happy., It’s not for everyone.

But don’t be carless in the process of finding your happiness;
you can have your tubes tied, many men are having surgery today to prevent children. Anyone who doesn’t want children need to do the world a favor and get fixed!

Prevention is easy to do if you want to be free and do your thing.

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if this is the vibe she gives you and she’s sexually active. She’s definitely not your girl. She’s doing someone else, not you. Move on.

Now If you are not sexually active or desire sex that’s fine, but you should communicate with your partner and find one that desires the same.

Sounds like a lot of people are making bad connections or not setting boundaries and adulting.

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Selective and no games. Have you seen the pool out there? Toxic! 😵‍💫

I’m in a green flag relationship now.
But that’s rare.
I’ve chosen women who I thought stepped up and had it together, good morals, deep faith, character and integrity. 9/10 were fake and had none of these.

I’ve learned so much from past relationships I could write a book, my boundaries are deep and no tolerance for red flags.

I’m steady, consistent and set in my ways. When you have purpose and building, you do not attract weakness.
Today there is an abundance of weakness and toxicity in men and women both.
Keep a guard up.

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@jas_d_barbie The ones that wasn’t aborted yes. I agree!

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@Gweenneee If that’s the case no woman can. As a man I know I haven’t. There are actually loyal people still in 2026. Rare maybe, but true.

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@lillyvivvi Married men or women shouldn’t be clubbing, in fact alcohol shouldn’t enter your home. Much less clubbing. If you’re serious about a relationship treat it as one. Sound mind and body. There are so many red flags and very few green ones. Create green flags!

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@Jennie_ani78 Generational cultures can be this way

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@dianakpp Some men actually have standards, character and moral values. I was groped last week and push away. Had to takea client home a couple of months ago and she wanted me to “come in” never blinked! Never swayed me! I’m loyal and faithful. That’s easy for me

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@_ayandamay Will they even work or have cognitive abilities to do simple task. Gen Z is the first generation in history to not be smarter than the previous generation. That includes basic task. We are going backwards.