realistically this is my problem but also I am far too stubborn to learn "short-term dating skills." I am not a dancing bear. I am not going to read a book about how to seduce. I do not "practice game," I will not "neg." I am EARNEST. and if that doesn't work, I die ALONE.
I lost years and years due to learned helplessness, one day as a slightly better well adjusted adult I realized. 1.) everything the therapists said was true, it is a science &2.) I had to admit I was in my own way for long periods of time, and I had to cope with being wrong now
You can rlly only open up to people about serious mental health issues like twice before they start to get frustrated so its kinda unfair to tell people to just talk to their loved ones when that's not a real long term solution guys
"You are not alone i swear" but many people really are. Many people have family and friends around them but still are alone. Completely alone. No support, no compassion, no love from others
Katy Perry says doing the dishes can get a man his dick sucked – but she expects the pantry doors closed too.
“One of my love languages is acts of service.”
“If I come downstairs and the kitchen is clean, you’ve done all the dishes, and you’ve closed all the pantry doors, you better be ready to get your dick sucked.”
“I don’t need a red Ferrari. I can buy a red Ferrari.”
“Just do the fucking dishes!”
“I will suck your dick!”
“Which guy has more sex? The guy that drives the Ferrari, the red Ferrari, or the guy that helps out with his wife every night in the kitchen?”
Cailee when asked what she’s obsessed with:
“First thing that pops into my head is really lame, I love being in love. I recommend it to everyone. It’s really hard and there’s been a lot of bumps in the road but it’s nice to completely want to be around a person 90% of the time.”
I hate being autistic and having just enough social awareness to know everything I do is cringe but not enough social awareness to know how to stop being cringe
being autistic is just;
me: hello how do I do this Thing
everybody: that Thing is common sense! :)
me: okay I did the Thing
everybody: WHY DID YOU DO IT LIKE THAT
and it’s been like that for 25 years