please teach your daughters that having a voice is more important than being nice. having a backbone is more important than being palatable. having standards is more important than being liked. and having self respect is more important than being chosen.
My favorite part of the bible is when jesus, instead of telling women how to dress, tells men to gouge out their eyes and cut off their hands if they're not capable of controlling themselves.
Girl to girl: please do NOT monitor your man. Do not look through his phone. Do not look through his things. Give that man complete freedom to do what he wants and see what happens. In the meantime, use all of that anxious energy towards anxiously building your own goals. Focus on a meal plan to hit your macros, focus on a workout routine, focus on a skin care routine, get another degree or advance your skills to make more money.
Just saw an Instagram reel that said:
โAt some point you become the age that your parents were in your childhood memories, only you donโt feel like an adult, and you realize your parents were still just kids trying to figure it out tooโ
And that shit just fucked me up.
He might have been known as Optimus Prime to most people, but i'll always remember Peter Cullen as the voice of Eeyore in Winnie Pooh, especially New Adventures.
Rest in Peace Peter, rest in peace ๐๏ธ