To your ex's new boyfriend:
You're a cheat.
You're a woman beater.
You're a sexual molester & predator.
You're toxic.
You're a misogynist.
When she breaks up with him.
Rinse and repeat with the next man.
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Women don't run away from danger.
Their long throat and greed will never make them think well.
When they finally see what they have done to themselves, they start to act like the victims.
We hardly ever learn. Sometimes we think because we've been exposed to education we can handle things. But without acknowledging those things that shaped and hurt us and intentionally working on them, we unconsciously repeat the cycle.
I heard about this 'before choosing a wife, to choose her mother' thing from my dad. It took me so long to understand and immediately I did, I had to search myself for the parts of my mother and her upbringing I wouldn't want to relive with my children.
It is one of the most difficult shadow work to do, but it is the most important, especially as it concerns raising children too. A lot of us need retrospection, acceptance and accountability.
They say remember the ones who were there at your lowest. Truth is, most of the time, at your lowest, it is just you.
No backup, no cheering section, no calls, no check-ins, no support โ just you figuring out how to get back up, every single time.
Nobody checks in until there's something to show for it. Thatโs the part people donโt talk about: you fight the hardest battles in silence, and the support shows up after the win.
Fvck that bs about not forgetting people when you make it.
Dear single women,
If you don't want to come online in the future to say:
"Marriage is not an achievement"
Stop cheating.
Stop begging men for money.
Stop doing hookups.
Stop dating criminals.
Stop going to every religious house & worshipping your religious leaders.
End.
@thenihiin I'd rather remain single than try to impress a woman by spending money.
If she needs money to take a man seriously, I bet she doesn't take her father seriously.
Stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Stop wasting your time & energy.
The first priority a woman must have before she becomes a wife & mother, is to make sure that the man is not a criminal.
The first priority a man must have before he decides to be a husband & father, is to make sure that the woman understands & values legit ways living.
End.
Women equate money to love and that is the biggest advantage men have over women
If he is spending on me, it means he loves me. Well, men donโt take money as women take money
A man can spend on you and donโt have a single intention to keep you.
A man view money like something he can always get again so as long as it opens your legs, he is going to spend it
She said it absolutely right.
Treat women how they ought to be treated and not how they wish to be treated.
Nicest men get treated the absolute worst.
Please listen ๐
@jon_d_doe What i observed lately on marriage and where we most men make this mistake is we trying to train a woman to be our wife. They will all fit in, and after, they will reset to their initial default. A proper, well trained woman knew it disastrous to talk with ex.