Had to take a pause from creating. I get inspired when I feel connected to myself and for a long season, that wasn’t the case… but it feels good to be coming back ✨
#nsfw#sensualist#softness
Yesssss!!! I have boundaries around age when it comes to intimate connections. Maturity is key but being a 5yo adult isn’t something I find attractive. I do tend to wait until the brain is formed 😅 who’s with me?
What changed perception of age for me was when someone put it like this “if you’re 25, you’ve only been an adult actually for 5 years. You’re a 5 year old adult. You just got here, you have SO many more years to go” and it’s like no you’re so fr-
My friend leaves to go home today after spending 3 weeks with me whilst I’m backpacking, for their vacations. It’s proven that there’s ALWAYS a “comedown” effect from happy times. The Yin/Yang.
Can confirm the sadness is creeping in. Remember, feelings are normal & it does pass
This is so essential. More often than not I work with people or people share that they have a play partner, a dominant who goes silent. At the very least, it’s poor communication but at its worst it is a form of abuse. A tactic used by people to manipulate & control.
It is essential to care about the wellbeing of your play partner and treat them with respect. This includes communicating with them, listening to them, respecting their boundaries and limits, and prioritizing their wellbeing (as well as your own).
As a bi women, I feel this deeply & it can feel invalidating when you try to explain that you’re more bisexual than biromantic too. Like, I adore sleeping with couples rather than dating women independently 😅 I’m still bi but now choose to use queer to avoid confusion
Just like a bi woman can be in a lesbian relationship or a bi man can be in a gay relationship, a bi person can be in a straight relationship and their queerness does not make that relationship "inherently queer". Hope that helps!